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 Title:  5 Relationship Killers and How to Avoid Them Word Count: 649 Summary: Don’t let your relationship fail. Learn about 5 relationship killers and begin to heal the underlying fears that cause these relationship killers. Keywords: relationships, relationship help, relationship advice, fear of intimacy, love advice, love Article Body: As a relationship counselor, I am constantly being asked why so many relationships fail. In the 37 years that I have worked with couples, I have discovered five major relationship killers: CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR Most people enter a relationship with a deep fear of rejection, and this fear motivates various forms of controlling behavior. Controlling behavior falls into two major categories – overt control and covert control. Overt control includes many forms of attack, such as blaming anger, rage, violence, judgment, criticism and ridicule.  Covert control includes compliance, enabling, withdrawal, defending, explaining, lying and denying. ...

 title:7 Amazing Steps to Finding Your Soulmate author:Ida Home source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_432.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: What is true matching about? It is about people that seem to be made for one another. But this may become a deceiving matter because matching begins with honesty. 1. The first you have to do is being honest with yourself, knowing who you are and what you are about. This issue tightly depends on your selfesteem, so work it out at this instant, always keep in mind a good image of yourself, this is the essence of being ready for your love! 2. Remember that unless you are ready to meet the love of your life, it won't come for you, because everything depends on how much you want it to happen. Wise men say that when you really want something, the whole Universe rearanges itself for making your wish come true. And believe me there is enough room for everybody's desires. So let your ...

 Title:  7 Clues That Your Partner Is Cheating On You Word Count: 725 Summary: Cheating is the worst form of destruction to your  relationship or marriage; it is already  considered a betrayal of the vows they took when  they got married. The discovery of the act of  cheating by the other half can either break the  marriage or make it stronger depending on the  strength of their love for one another. Keywords: dating, online dating, flirt, seduction, relationships, love, romance, marriage, foreign brides, single parents Article Body: Cheating is the worst form of destruction to your  relationship or marriage; it is already  considered a betrayal of the vows they took when  they got married. The discovery of the act of  cheating by the other half can either break the  marriage or make it stronger depending on the  strength of their love for one another.  Cheating generally means that you are not fully  satisf...

 title:7 Myths About Creating A Better Relationship author:Cecil McIntosh source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_176.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: In my private practice for over 14 years no matter what my clients have come to see me about, there has always been an issue about a better relationship. Here are 7 of the most common misconceptions my clients have related to me about having a better relationship. These misconceptions are followed by my perspective on each one of them. Myth 1 I have to love everything about my partner Reality Check 1 You were born pure and pristine. You then learnt behaviors from your parents, teacher, coaches, church etc. (who did their best to teach you about a better relationship). These behaviors have become the backbone for your way of living and having a better relationship. Perhaps a common behavior that irritates having a better relationship would be leaving the toilet seat up a...

 title:7 Proven Ways You Can Catch a Cheating Lover author:W. Aris source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_50.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: If you're worried that your mate is cheating, keep your head together and start collecting evidence. Whatever you do, don't let your partner know you suspect until you have some good, solid facts to back up your suspicions. A cheating lover, backed into a corner, usually finds an excuse to leave the relationship precipitously. And a faithful lover does not need to ever know there was suspicion. Here are seven proven, tried-and-true ways you can catch a cheating lover:  1) The single biggest tip-off is in sudden behavior changes that continue sporadically. A work routine that has changed, such as staying late at the office or long lunches could be a tell-tale clue. Call him, just to see if he's there. Even drop in on him, once you suspect him, at the office, bringing som...

 title:7 Reasons Why Diamonds Are Still A Girl's Best Friend author:Janice Wee source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_15.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: Marilyn Monroe made that phrase famous. Diamonds are a girl's best friend. That still makes a lot of sense. Here's why. Reason #1 diamonds are a girls best friend because they are so beautiful. Fiery, romantic diamonds light up her finger. White diamonds look beautiful with outfits in every color. Reason #2 diamonds are forever. There are lots of beautiful things around. Why diamonds? Roses are beautiful, but they fade. Dresses are gorgeous, but after childbirth, or as she ages, that beautiful dress would not look as beautiful on her anymore. Reason #3 diamonds are precious. Sure, moissanite may be what a girl might buy for herself, because of its lower price, but moissanite is man made. Diamonds are rare, natural stones. The diamonds that girls love are of ...

 title:7 Surefire Ways to Arouse Your Woman author:Caterina Christakos source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_43.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: As there are different types of women, there are different ways to arouse them as well. If you have been in a bit of a slump here are some quick ways to rev up your love life: 1) Dress in a suit and take her out to a romantic dinner. Women love men in suits and almost every man looks good in one. The soft candle light of a romantic restaurant combined with a good wine will put her in the mood to get closer, as well. 2) Work out together. Workouts release pheromones that heighten attraction between couples. Get sweaty together then clean up with some dirty fun in the shower. 3) Take a bath together. Fill the tub with some scented oils or bath salts and toss in some rose petals. Play romantic music and light some candles. She will feel pampered and grateful. Let her relax for...

 title:7 Things You Must Know About Women author:Caterina Christakos source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_33.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: Most men find women mysterious and confusing. You find us difficult to figure out. It isn't your fault. It's not like anyone gave you a guide book on women in highschool to study. Here are some of the mysteries about women revealed: 1) Before you even get to the door most women wonder if you are Mister Right.  2) She is just as anxious as you are about your first date.  3) Women like your undivided attention. Pay attention to what she has to say and she will be more interested in hearing about you. Also keep your eyes on her. Eyeing any of the other women in the room is a definite way to make that first date your last. 4) After the first date women pretty much know if and when they will sleep with you.  5) Many women don't want to get married or at least not as...

 Title:  7 Warning Signs That She is Not Interested in You Anymore Word Count: 427 Summary: To break up a relationship is a harder decision  when we talk about a long term one. In most cases  when woman is no longer interested in a  relationship she doesn't want to be the one to  end it. Keywords: dating, online dating, seduction, love, romance, relationshis, marriage, foreign brides Article Body: To break up a relationship is a harder decision  when we talk about a long term one.  In most cases when woman is no longer interested  in a relationship she doesn't want to be the one  to end it. But even when she is already made the  decision to break it up, she will take some time  to give you some signs to prepare you, before she  tells you.   If you feel that something is going wrong it is  time to take a closer look at your relationship.  Here are seven warning signs she is no longer  interested: 1. This...

 Title:  7 Ways To Improve Your Relationship Word Count: 902 Summary: Good relationships don’t just happen. I’ve heard many of my clients state that, “If I have to work at it, then it’s not the right relationship.” This is not a true statement, any more than it’s true... Keywords: relationships, trust, bonding, love, marriage, marriage counseling Article Body: Good relationships don’t just happen. I’ve heard many of my clients state that, “If I have to work at it, then it’s not the right relationship.” This is not a true statement, any more than it’s true that you don’t have to work at good physical health through exercise, eating well, and stress reduction. I’ve discovered, in the 35 years that I’ve been counseling couples, 7 choices you can make that will not only improve your relationship, but can turn a failing relationship into a successful one. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF This is the most important choice you can make to improve your relationship. This means that yo...

 title:7 Ways to Make Yourself Irresistable author:Caterina Christakos source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_24.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: The key to being irresistable to men is more about you and less about them.  It is about accentuating every one of your strengths both internally and externally and reveling in them. So before we show you how to flirt, tease and seduce, we are going to teach you how to pamper, indulge and revel in the delicious power of being a woman.  1) Before going out to socialize or even see the one that you are currently dating, take a few minutes to visualize what you want to happen. Picture in detail exactly who you want and what you want to happen between you. What qualities will your perfect lover have?  How will he look at you? How will he touch you? Add in as much detail as possible. Knowing what you want is the first step to having it.  2) Before seeing the ...

 Title:  5 Secret Ways to Show Your Love to Your Partner Word Count: 503 Summary: Five overlooked ways to show your significant other how much you truly love them Keywords: love poems, love letters, relationships, love advice Article Body: There are many ways to express love to your partner other than quoting the actual words "I Love You." Usually the fire in relationships dies down after a while and the feeling of your heart pounding with the excitement of being with your significant other is not felt nearly as often, or even at all.  So, how do we get back that love, passion and warm feeling that wraps around us and penetrate our thoughts in the beginning of a relationship?  Many say actions speak louder than words so below I have listed 5 secrets of seduction to help you show your partner how much you truly love them:  1. Flirt  This is a light-hearted seduction with the intent of conveying love! Why not send a sexy text message or email while you are at...

 Title:  5 Tips To Make Her Respect You Word Count: 625 Summary: Respect is one of the basic human values. As it  applies to people, is defined as an attitude of  admiration or esteem for a person. This feeling  is generally a result of a person's achievements.  While all people deserve respect, not many of  they receive this. Keywords: dating, online dating, seduction, flirt, relationships, romance, marriage, foreign brides, single parents Article Body: Respect is one of the basic human values. As it  applies to people, is defined as an attitude of  admiration or esteem for a person. This feeling  is generally a result of a person's achievements.  While all people deserve respect, not many of  they receive this. Everyone wants to be respected by others but not  all of them get it. It’s important to first  define who a respectable person is before giving  respect to him.  First of all you have to keep in min...

 title:5 Vitally important Questions you should ask your Online Dating E-friend? author:Michael Axon source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_538.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: Online Dating 5 Vitally important Questions you should ask your Online Dating E-friend? Online dating can be very entertaining and gratifying. Since its inception, online dating has continuously brought people together even though they may be worlds apart. Online dating makes bridges to connect people together, enjoy each other, and build dreams together. However, it's not always possible to instantly find somebody with whom to share the rest of your life with.  Online dating is a continuous, systematic process. It entails careful selection of words, pictures, and representations of the person involved in order to get the best results. Moreover, from the time you first find someone you think you could be interested in, remember the proces...

 title:5 Ways To Keep Romance Alive – On A Budget author:Jeff Rose source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_596.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: Just about everyone agrees that a nice dinner and a good bottle of wine at a quiet, intimate restaurant will set the mood for romance, but have you seen the price tag? Not everyone can afford to spend big money on romance ever time, but a bit of creativity can get the same results without breaking the bank. While most people know about ‘his and hers’ items like bathrobes and towels, there are a number of other items that can be enjoyed together as ‘couples’ items.  Try getting matching T-shirts with cute sayings on them.  Have matching his and hers overnight bags, coffee mugs, bicycles, cell phones, cars, holiday ornaments, tennis rackets, rocking chairs and even matching carved pumpkins on Halloween. Surprise your partner by making the ordinary a little more special...

 title:6 Things Not To Do While Making Love author:Tim Wintle source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_712.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: Lovemaking should be the ultimate feeling for both of you, but sometimes it can feel less than special. To help you get the most from the moment here are six things which you should avoid doing wile making the beast with two backs. 1) Calling out another person's name. Unless you have both agreed to role-play beforehand this is a definite no-no and it's very likely to get you into trouble with your partner. If you are extremely comfortable together then dropping it in could bring some extra kink into lovemaking as part of a spontaneous role-play, but no matter how close you are, if it comes out too naturally it will always hurt your partner emotionally. 2) Ask if he's cum yet. This can upset men for two main reasons; firstly that it immediately gives the impression that you...

 title:6 Tips For NOT Dating Russian Women author:Irina Sbitneva source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_278.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: Look around the (online dating) web and you will notice that the online dating scene is a lot focused on single Russian women and other East European women. The reason that in particular women from these countries are looking for a foreign partner is generally known, but will not be discussed in this article. But I do like to give you some tips when you must NOT dating or contacting Russian women. Let me give you 6 valuable tips: Tip 1. If you are a single man and you don’t want to be single anymore then you probably already are using the Internet as a source to find a new partner. But fun dating, chatting and ‘playing around’ with people from your own culture or country is something different then being determined to find specific a Russian woman with the one and only purpose: ...

 Title:  6 Ways To Get Your Ex-Back In 3 Days Word Count: 624 Summary: We make relationships to enjoy life. Even it  perhaps a lot of sacrifices to keep a  relationship and to make it work, many of us  prefer to make these sacrifices just to have near  the person we love and like to spend time with. Keywords: dating, online dating, flirt, seduction, relationships, romance, marriage, foreign brides, single parents Article Body: We make relationships to enjoy life. Even it  perhaps a lot of sacrifices to keep a  relationship and to make it work, many of us  prefer to make these sacrifices just to have near  the person we love and like to spend time with. Sometimes it happens that a relationship ends  even that there is still love between the  partners. This happens when one of the partners  makes some regular mistakes and has a bad  behavior towards the other. But usually the one  who is guilty for ending the relat...

 4:29 15/04/2023title:"We're Just Dating" Defined author:Jill Dellamalva source_url:http://www.articlecity.com/articles/relationships/article_238.shtml date_saved:2007-07-25 12:30:17 category:relationships article: “What time do you want to go to my family’s house on Christmas Eve?” you ask your boyfriend of two months. You’re looking forward to introducing him to your relatives because you’ve been bragging to them that your relationship has been perfect so far.  That is, until you hear his response to your question.  “Oh,” he says, turning a little red. “I didn’t think we’d be spending the holidays together with each other’s families. You know, we’re just dating.”  “Oh, sure,” you say, “I knew that.”  You proceed to go home, shut off your cell phone, block him on your Instant Messenger buddy list, and write him a 5-page email explaining that he led you on to believe you were special, and that you need to break up with him now.  If you didn’t get that far y...

 Title:  "What Does Love Mean?" See How 4-8 Year-Old Kids Describe Love Word Count: 552 Summary: A group of professional people posed this question to a group  of 4 to 8 year-olds: "What does love mean?"  See the deep answers they gave... Keywords: love,success,romance,dating,romantic Article Body: A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds: "What does love mean?"  The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think...  _____  "When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love."  Rebecca - age 8  _____  "When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."  Billy - age 4  _____  "Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."  Te...